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CRHAIR
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Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by CRHAIR » 04 Dec 2016, 08:55

I was just thinking about the fact that i've pretty much never told anyone about this. My friends I don't think they'd really understand. My girlfriend doesn't even really know, she picked up on the fact that I like hair but not the cutting aspect of it.

So I was just curious, in your life who knows (if anyone) about your fetish?

psylocke
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by psylocke » 04 Dec 2016, 10:48

Pretty much all my close friends and two of my hairdressers. I'd never get into the nitty gritty or anything though, just banter.

that1
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by that1 » 04 Dec 2016, 11:27

Nearly all my exes. Think that's it.

chas45
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by chas45 » 04 Dec 2016, 11:45

My wife.

haircutcut
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by haircutcut » 04 Dec 2016, 12:04

My family including relatives and friends

ibbity
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by ibbity » 04 Dec 2016, 15:10

wife and one ex.the ex that turned me to joy of cutting

hwhai234
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by hwhai234 » 04 Dec 2016, 17:18

My current partner, an ex, a fling, and my best friend of fifteen years, whom I told entirely because it was getting confusing trying to explain my relationship drama without reference to it.

The curious thing is, no one I've ever told has been shocked or weirded out. Most seem to agree that it's fairly tame and harmless, as far as fetishes go. It makes me wonder why we're mostly so secretive about it, or if anyone has had a strongly negative reaction.

For me, I mainly don't want my business out there, or for people to look at me crossways when my girlfriend or I suddenly have a much shorter haircut. But there definitely is a sense of shame that I can't fully articulate--a feeling that I'm some kind of pervert.

JimB
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by JimB » 04 Dec 2016, 19:52

two I met online ..... They also share the interest .....
A woman looks great with short hair or a shaved head .....

scissortooth
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by scissortooth » 05 Dec 2016, 00:02

My wife, one girl I dated for a short time and three high-school female friends of mine, if they remember it, and one girl I once chatted with online and then met live when I was in high school.

That online girl and two of those high-school friends were actually thrilled by talking about it with me and excited by the idea of changing their looks significantly for a guy. Recently my wife seems more and more like that too, which is VERY fine.

headboy
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by headboy » 05 Dec 2016, 05:45

My wife knows I prefer short hair and I cut hers. She knows I like the way clippers feel on my head and that I enjoy using them on her (on the sides mostly, almost never on top for her). After 25 years, we have no secrets. It would be near impossible to keep one this big for that long, so I don't even try to keep it secret. If women's hair comes up as a subject, my friends know I prefer short hair.

I dated a girl before I got married and I told her one night... She looked at me as if I was speaking a foreign language. "Really? Like, to the shoulders?"

I told her, "No, like Jean Seberg." I had to show her the movie "Breathless," she looked at me king of odd for about a week. She told me if I shaved my head, she get a pixie cut. I took the deal, because I would always take that deal. I look kind of odd with no hair she looked gorgeous with the pixie.
She hated her haircut, I loved mine. It kind of figures. For about three months, I kept talking her into getting trims every two weeks, she insisted I let her shave me. After that, she started to let it grow out, I talked her into cutting it again when it was at an awkward stage and she really did not like it. We broke up for a lot of reasons, I'm pretty sure that was one of the bigger reasons.

I saw her a few years later, her hair was long again, and the guy she was with was as bald as a cue ball. I suppose I was not the only one with a fetish.

Ms. Herten
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by Ms. Herten » 05 Dec 2016, 06:36

My ex-husband, though I think he just sort of forgot after a while when he stopped caring. A couple of my ex-boyfriends.

kensrs
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by kensrs » 05 Dec 2016, 06:41

everyone on here and every gf i've had, so quite a few people, lol...

Lou Spec
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by Lou Spec » 05 Dec 2016, 11:11

No one outside the virtual communities. I think an ex-roomie who used to use my laptop might know but he's never mentioned it. All these years of wondering if my friends and family would be open and not care too much if i shared this part of me with them, and i still think they'd just label me special kind of crazy and start maintaining a distance.

clipperhappy
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by clipperhappy » 05 Dec 2016, 11:14

One ex and my current girlfriend. My ex unexpectedly went short for me, which was a very big turn-on ;-) But after a little while, she got a ghastly haircut just to punish me for something ;-) My current gf also went for a shorter cut just for me, because she's very much a long-haired gal.

And then there was two girls I met online... I actually cut both their hair off, which made for fabulous memories... Too bad I'm not supposed to share those pics ;-)

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RitschRatsch
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by RitschRatsch » 05 Dec 2016, 14:33

Every long term partner I've ever had, up to and including the current ones.

cwclark
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by cwclark » 06 Dec 2016, 05:03

My wife. About it, not shy about voicing my preference for short hair to others, but it doesn't go much farther than that

RoverSteve
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by RoverSteve » 06 Dec 2016, 05:38

My partner of 10 years and thats it. there are a few other folk, but they're not really IN my life anymore.

aasics
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by aasics » 06 Dec 2016, 05:47

2 of my best friends. A very small handful of women I've dated, a few others I've found through the community

No one has ever flinched, but it's still something I'm very sensitive about. Go figure.

ssjockey
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by ssjockey » 06 Dec 2016, 08:13

My wife knows, not all the specifics, but she calls it my hair porn....

kensrs
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Re: Who in your life knows about your fetish

Post by kensrs » 06 Dec 2016, 10:22

aasics wrote:2 of my best friends. A very small handful of women I've dated, a few others I've found through the community

No one has ever flinched, but it's still something I'm very sensitive about. Go figure.
Same way, one friend knows and he is like cool... im like wtf, you arent freaked out.

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